Today's post is a special interview with Leys Geddes, Vice-Chair of the British Stammering Association and campaigner for issues that affect people who stammer. Leys answered the questions I asked him below:
1. What inspired you to start campaigning for the stammering community?
I’ve always been aware of the prejudice, first at school and then in every other aspect of life. The very least of the difficulties was that people laughed at me. Then, at work, I was once fired for stammering and on three other occasions there was a strong movement to get me fired - but others stuck up for me and I survived. But I’ve always liked talking to people and, as I am fortunate enough to have had a good education, I always had things I wanted to say.
I nearly took the quiet option, to become a copywriter in an advertising agency in London, but I just stopped myself in time, and applied successfully for the Shell Management Trainee Programme. Since then I worked in a number of marketing agencies and consultancies, in management positions, and have simply had to talk. So I have become accustomed to talking and stammering - and dealing with the consequences! But, often, I must say, I have been very unhappy with my inability to express myself clearly and to assert myself in situations where there is potential conflict. As a result of this, I may appear to be - and may actually be - a little aggressive!
I had always felt I should do something about this continual prejudice against stammering, because I could not control my speech at all times, never mind how hard I tried. But many people still seemed to think that I was indecisive, weak and possibly even stupid. So, when I joined the British Stammering Association, which was only a few years ago, I did so mainly because I wanted to learn more about stammering. And I was particularly struck recently when research began to prove that our brains were different - and that this was the root cause of stammering. Here, at last, was some proof that it was not our fault, nor our parents’ fault, and it made me even more determined to improve society’s understanding of stammering - and to try to right the wrongs to which we are subjected.
So I decided to speak out.
My marketing background helped me to see that most of the very few stammering stories which do get into the news tend to be about people who have had miraculous ‘cures’ or who, according to journalists, have the ‘strength of character’ to overcome their stammers. This gives the unfortunate and inaccurate impression that stammering is no problem and we could all be cured if we simply pulled ourselves together.
So that’s why I think we need to put over a much more realistic view of stammering to the 99% of society which does not stammer. If we could do this, it would make it easier for us all. Maybe, we could then walk into a room of strangers and say ‘I stammer’ and everyone would be cool with that. But we should not seek sympathy but, rather, we should be demonstrating that we are normal, sensible people, most of whom succeed in finding ways to overcome a constant series of hurdles in an effort to make the most of ourselves, our abilities and our potential contribution to society.
2. Do you feel you have reached a stage where the needs of the stammering community are being met?
No, we have made some progress, particularly in terms of discrimination laws and the very recent agreement by Government to introduce Early intervention, but we still have miles to go.
I look at the tremendous progress made by people with mobility disability. But I also look at the 40 years that have gone past since the Black Power protest at the 1968 Olympics. And I know from these two examples that it is possible to get your views and your cause accepted, if you work hard, but it takes a long, long time for society to change its views.
3. What is your main personal goal from your campaigning efforts?
To encourage other people who stammer to speak out.
Many thanks to Leys for sharing his fascinating and inspiring story on how he got into campaigning for people who stammer. If you like, you can find out more about Leys' efforts at the following links:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=-epHaW8nTJQ
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1284012/save_9_out_of_10_children_from_a_lifetime_of_stammering/
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/yt-myr8yCk0u0k/tell_us_the_truth_about_stammering_stuttering/
http://www.stammering.org/adverts.html